There are several ways to discover what’s important to you. To help you help get started, I’ve listed some examples that brought me clarity:
Journal: after a couple weeks I saw the thread through my entries. It became very clear what experiences I considered 'very nice' and I wrote those points down separately.
I turned the above-mentioned points into appointments. For example:
I noticed that I'd mentioned enjoying watching the Oprah Winfrey
Show a lot in my journal. Several programmes had brought me new
insights that inspired me to great depth.
do you have a stack of illustrated magazines somewhere which in
fact can go? Take one pair of scissors, thumb through the illustrated
magazines and cut out, instinctively, everything you find appealing.
A certain image, colours, expressions... do not limit yourself and
cut out everything what you find attractive.